Essentially
slow in making decisions, Librans also fear becoming too trapped by
physical and emotional demands of an intimate relationshhip. Effectively
this combination creates an enormous dilemma for them. More than any
other sign, Librans feel the need for a relationship, although they
often find it impossible to choose between two lovers or even to decide
on whether to commit themselves emotionally to one person.
Quest for the Ideal
Sexually, Librans are motivated by a search for a perfect partner: so
it is not unusual to find Librans who sublimate their emotional needs
in a romantic web of fantasy which has little connection with the reality
of their own experiences. In turn, this will only serve to deepen further
their confusion as to precisely the sort of lover they are seeking.
All this may crystallize with maturity; but so, too, may the realization
that the world is by no means as ideal as they originally imagined.
All sorts of sexual experimentation may result in this quest: alternatively,
they may opt to abstain altogether.
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ROMANTIC
LOVERS
Librans
are renowned for being accomodating, and adjust readily to the
needs of others, so that they can be delightful, if somewhat passive
lovers in this role. However, the true way to a librans heart
is through courtship. A romantic candlelit dinner or a flattering
compliment will help no end to thaw their sometimes frosty exterior.
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Pleasure-seeking
Librans are into pleasure in a big way, and those who find contentment
in a relationship will spend hours caressing a partner.
